Looking for what?

Some days ago I told someone: "I'm not looking for a boyfriend". That means: "I'm not looking for someone to like/love".

What is it that one calls "like" or "love"? What the predictability of those "conditions"? Can you predict wether you'll like someone next week or not?

I've already heard plenty of stories about friends, colleagues, neighbours... my father was my mother's teacher. They fell in love, got married and I was born to be here writing down these quite nonsense thoughts today.

Liking someone is like appreciating wine. You buy a certain brand and grape type once, try it.. and then you'll advice it to your friends and you, yourself, will buy it again.

A good wine goes well with good cheese,
goes well with your sense of taste.
A good wine is a moment of pleasure,
a "repeatfull" moment.
A good wine is not the only good wine in the world,
but a wine you'd put in your cellar,
to pick it.. undoubtfully..
A good wine is rare.. I can remember a couple of them..
It embodies a good impression in the 5 senses of
Seeing, listening, touching, smelling, tasting.

You fall in love with a wine, unexpectedly, as you fall in love with someone.